Even though my dad has so much pride and has the shortest, most aggravating temper a family member has to deal with, he would be the first one I would go tell things to if I had to choose between him or my mom. I love my momma, but she’s too judgemental and throws my past failures in my face later in the future. My dad just understands I made a mistake, tells me it’s okay I made a mistake because he knows I’ve learned from it, and moves on. That’s it.